A friend of mine posted this poem from a book she is currently reading. I'm so glad these words of wisdom have been passed on to me now, as a new parent. It's very easy to lose track of what's really important as I'm starting to realize now that Darby is becoming her own little "person". I shall keep this advice close by at all times to remind me of my NUMBER 1!
If I Had My Child to Raise All Over Again
If I had my child to raise all over again, I'd finger paint more, and point the finger less.
I'd do less correcting, and more connecting.
I'd take my eyes off my watch,
and watch with my eyes.
I would care to know less,
and know to care more.
I'd take more hikes and
fly more kites.
I'd stop playing serious,
and seriously play.
I would run through more fields and gaze at
more stars.
I'd do more hugging, and less tugging.
I would be firm less often,
and affirm much more.
I'd build self-esteem first,
and the house later.
I'd teach less about the love of power,
And more about the power of love."
Diana Loomans