"4.5" Month Wellness Exam

Today Darby had her 4 month wellness exam along with her second DTaP. She's only gained an oz since her last visit, which I guess is normal (even though she's been eating like a fiend). Her new weight is 13.7oz...2.1lbs bigger since dad left. 25.25 inches long. The shot was no big deal as the Darbs took it like a pro. I think she wanted to cry a bit but she turned that frown upside down and started giggling before the nurse even had a chance to put the band aid on. I swear, she loves the doctor's office! Little does she know....



She has been such a joy the past two weeks! Dad needs to come home quick because I swear I blink and she either changes or I miss something cool/funny/sweet... Video just isn't doing her justice!

Play Date

It seems as though all of the gals out her have or are having BOYS! That said, all of Darby's play dates are with a bunch of little Rambos. Last night after our workout, she had a blast with Wyatt and John...here are some pics! John just decided to lay next to the Darbster, and Wyatt gave "Dauby" a kiss. We couldn't quite get that on camera.

Man...I'm such a mom now!!! These are the exciting moments in my day :)

4 Month Birthday!!

Wow...today is Darbs' 4 month birthday! Time has flown by so fast, yet I don't remember life without her?? She is definitely my best BUD, always making me smile at the most opportune moments - How does she know???

In honor of this big day I'd like to talk about all of those "Darby firsts" that have happened so far...at least those that I can think of off the top of my head :)

• She rolled over for the first time in the middle of August. Man is that hilarious to watch. She's definitely mastered going back to stomach, but still has some trouble going stomach to back. I think this is the time when babies first get that sense of frustration. I may have a video clip of this particular skill...I'll have to see.




• I'm surprised it took this long, but her first live soccer game was the beginning of September. 3 months old... Arizona State vs Old Dominion. Sparky the SunDevil showed her a little bit of love, and man did she love watching all of the activity at the event. Unfortunately, we don't have any proof that she was there :( What was I thinking???




• Her first plane adventure...Honolulu to Phoenix on August 19th. (2.5 months of age) Mom was a little bit nervous making such a long flight (with a layover in LA) by herself with baby. Thank the LORD Darby was a little angel!!! Of course I got the "oh shit" looks upon taking our seats from the passengers around us -But, by the end of the flight I received nothing but compliments. Thank you Darby!! I'll try to remember that behavior when you cause me to pull my hair out in the future :) All of that extra baby luggage was a tad bit cumbersome, but flight attendants were generous for the most part, and on one leg of the adventure I had a nice off duty pilot helping me out. Apparently, according to him, he let the pilots know there was a baby on board...meaning, make sure to have a calm landing! Not sure if I believe him :) I must have looked desperate for help??? I thought I was doing pretty good?? Not looking forward to traveling with her when she's mobile...that will truly be an adventure...




• Her first jewelry parties...ha!! Beginning of August...over 2 months of age. Silpada party was the first and Stella and Dot was the second. I think they were both within a few weeks. The good thing about this age, is you can take the baby with you to such functions and the baby will either sleep in another room or just be passed around from lady to lady. The ladder is what typically has happened so far. A bunch of loud women getting together to try on jewels, eat good appetizers, and pass the Darbster around. Some free babysitting while dad is away, and I get to hang out with the girls. Darby is either going to be one chatter box, social butterfly, or she's going to be scared out of her mind when around a bunch of loud women...???!! The way she is jibberjabbering right now makes me think she'll be like one of us! Which brings me to:



• Her first adventure with a boy her age!! This is at Rozzie's shower...3.5 months of age. Sept. 13th or something. Out here, everyone is having or has had boys. So pretty much all of Darbs' friends are boys! Big boy Ben who is 5 days older than Darby, was hangin' out at the shower watching Darby jibber jabber at him. She was having a conversation and he was just staring at her with his fist in his mouth. In fact, he put his fist in her mouth at one point. Was he trying to tell her to be quiet??? The Darbs' just started sucking on it, since that's what babies do??? She loves looking at other babies.



• First Luau!!!! September 15th or something...3.5 months of age. Auntie Amber, Mom and the Darbs ate some Hawaiian food and watched some Hawaiian dancers. Darby definitely loves the dancin' scene. She could quite possibly be a dancer someday. Not quite sure what to think of that at the moment...just being honest???



• First splash in the bathtub...3 months. Darbs' is lovin' bath time!!! It has only been a few weeks since she discovered splashing and making a mess of the kitchen. So darn cute one doesn't even care about the puddles of water and water marks on windows!!!



• Let's not forget her first Lucky Jeans outfit, her first hike up Makapu'u (Light House), and her first golf excursion...we won't forget that!!!,

There have been a ton of other milestones, which include, grabbing at objects, cooing (now that's turning into screeching as she discovers her voice.) reaching for Sadie to try and pet, dipping in the pool in AZ, her first giggles, and of course her first BEACH Adventure. Now, how many kids can say they hung out at some of the most famous beaches in Hawaii when they were 3 months old??? I've got pictures as proof...

I cannot believe how much has changed in these 4 short months!! Who would have thought? Darby is truly a blessing who's smiles, laughs, screeches, and even pouts make me laugh everyday. I'm sad Tony isn't around to see all of this, but I suppose these are just the first of many FIRSTS' to come. She's already gained over 2lbs since Dad left 8 weeks ago, so there is no slowing down at this point!

Well, happy birthday Darbs!!! We celebrated tonight with the whole family (me, Saids, and Darbs). Did the nightly walk, and hung out with her bud John who is 1 year older...no big whoop :) She stayed up past her bedtime and finally fell asleep on my shoulder. The best ending to a long day!!

8 Weeks and Counting

It's been 8 weeks since Daddy left for Afghanistan. Darby has gained 2 pounds (now 13.6 lbs), football season has begun (Boise State 2-0) as well as the new season of Office (as of tonight). My first trip to AZ has come and gone, and Amber's visit to Hawaii ended this evening. In fact, she's somewhere over the Pacific as we speak. Technically, it's been a month since I've had any alone time to think about how much I'm missing Tone. It hasn't been the same watching our Alma mater without my best friend nor was it as fun to laugh at The Office without Tone controlling the remote from his big chair.

Driving home from the airport, I couldn't help but get a little sad. However, the minute I pulled into the carport, Saiders was greeting me with her full body wag, and the Darbster reminded me that she was very hungry and tired... Never a dull moment :)

It was a bath night for Darbs (being we spent all day at the beach with Auntie A), which is always an adventure that she's starting to really enjoy as of Arizona. Once we got the jammies on we sat in the rocker and began reading some Dr. Seuss. Saider's was laying at my feet chewing on her new toy, and Darby was sitting on my lap trying hard to turn the pages of the book herself with so much focus. These simple routines are our adventures that bring smiles to my face everyday...really, how lucky am I to have my girls???

These past 8 weeks have brought many "firsts" for Darby. It's sad thinking about how much Tony is missing, but with technology I'm able to get some of those special firsts on camera and there are plenty more "firsts" to come for Daddy to enjoy. I'm proud of my Marine and I wouldn't have it any other way.

The first time Darby starting hugging her Daddy Doll and chewing on his head...Tonight! Thanks Tone for calming her down on multiple occasions now :) We love and miss you!!!

Memoirs of a Geisha

Books on CD...the best invention EVER! I never thought it would be so hard to get the time to sit down and read a good book. After putting Darby down, it's mommy time - but that usually includes cleaning or catching up on online "work" - Maybe taking in some Reality TV...a guilty pleasure for Tone and myself. Most of the time I'm just too tired to do anything, so Darby and I go to bed together.

I finally went to the library on base (when Tone was still here), and decided to pick out a couple of cd's to listen to while I go here and there around the island. It's been two weeks and I've finished The English Patient, and Memoirs of a Geisha. Even better is that the Darbster LOVES the soothing voices of the readers...GENIUS!!!

Loved both the books by the way. I just wish the sisters in Memoirs of a Geisha would have been reunited by the powers that be...hmmm???? The English Patient was so well written. It never ceases to amaze me how good some are with words...poetic! I'll probably go online to read commentary and thoughts on the stories...create my own book club I suppose.

Your thoughts???

Little Hands and Feet

So, I was sitting on the couch this evening playing with our precious Darby and thought to myself, "I REALLY need to start writing down these thoughts that are sprinting through my head." Darby is FASCINATING...that's the word that comes to mind off of the top of my head.

Now, I'll be the first to admit that I used to think of newborns as blah...wrinkled up little babies that just sleep, eat, and poop. Ha...I was soooooooooo wrong. Darby is miss personality...that is for sure!

Darby is 11 weeks tomorrow and I would have to say that her milestone of the month has to do with hand, feet and eye coordination. Forget all the fancy toys we got from our shower...she is lovin' her hands and feet. I'll venture to say that she spends all of her waking hours either staring up at the moving fan or staring at her hands and feet. She can't get enough of the world she now lives in. Grabbing at my shirt with some intentional control and focus is pretty exciting! Oh...the little things!!!

This brings me to another thought...I TOTALLY know how the movie Benjamin Button came about. I swear there are times when my Darbster looks like a cute old man. When she poochettos...and those little ears that stick out...yeah....just a thought.

As much as I look forward to certain Darby milestones, in the back of my mind I don't want her to grow any faster. Can't she just stay the way she is right now until I'm ready? Those curious, alert eyes. Her innocent smile, soft skin, feathery hair. That smell of youth...and those 10 tiny fingers and toes. One can see how new and spectacular the world is through her eyes.

She's my little munchkin and Daddy's little chicken mcnugget.

Easter and Anniversary - 34.5 weeks

Tone planned a great 4th anniversary by taking me on a nice hike up Diamondhead and cooking me dinner that Saturday night. Marinated steak and shrimp with some homemade scalloped potatoes! What a sweety!! The next day we pigged out at an Easter Brunch at the Westin in Waikiki Beach Hut...yummmy! They gave us the best seat in the house on what was a perfect spring day in paradise!! What a splendid, peaceful weekend before the baby madness begins!!